Funerals
The purpose of this page is largely to give some examples of readings, hymns, poems that are suitable for a funeral service for those who would find it helpful.
It is possible to have a funeral service in church followed by a cremation at the Crematorium. A coffin may be brought into the church on the evening or morning of the service to allow the family time on their own before the funeral service. It is also possible to hold the funeral within a celebration of Holy Communion (A Requiem Mass) but obviously only when the service takes place in a church. Holy Communion can be celebrated at a funeral. This is because it is a celebration of the resurrection and a sacramental means by which Jesus strengthens and binds together His church.
A memorial service can be held after a private funeral service. These decisions are often very personal ones and can be discussed with the priest.
The Funeral Service
The aim of the funeral service is to remember and thank God for the life of the person who has died, to say goodbye to them and to reaffirm one's trust in a forgiving and loving God who gave the gift of their life and to whom they return. Also, in the sharing memories and grief, to give comfort and support to others who are present, and to seek God's help.
A funeral service or a memorial service usually includes two or three hymns, one
or more readings, prayers and an eulogy. The readings may include a Psalm, which
is said by all, a bible reading, and one or more poems or pieces of literature. A
bible reading is always read. The most commonly chosen bible readings are John 14:1-
Sometimes the family will know of a particular reading that meant a lot to the deceased, or that reflects something about them. A PDF of possible poems and readings can be found by HERE.
Family members may write a poem especially for the occasion, or produce something visual or musical.
A piece of music may be chosen to be played after the eulogy to allow for a time of reflection. It may be a piece of sacred music, or a song associated with the departed, or one they loved.
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Service Outline
The following is a possible outline order for a funeral service but the final order is usually arrived at after discussion with the family:
- Music before the service
- Opening Sentences
- Welcome and Introduction
- Hymn
- Psalm -
said by all - Poem
- Bible Reading
- Eulogy
- Music for silent Reflection
- Hymn
- Prayers
- Hymn
- Commendation and Committal
- The Blessing
- Music
Items not in bold type in are optional.
Popular Hymns
(Click on title to follow link where available.)
Abide With Me
All Things Bright and Beautiful
Amazing Grace
Be Still and Know That I
Am God
Be Still, for the Presence of the Lord
Be Thou My Vision
Dear Lord and Father
of Mankind
Eternal Father, Strong to Save
Great is Thy Faithfulness
Guide Me O Thou
Great Redeemer
I Heard the Voice of Jesus Say
Just as I am
Lord Jesus Christ
Lord of
all Hopefulness
Make Me a Channel of Your Peace
Morning Has Broken
O God, Our Help in
Ages Past
O Lord my God (How great thou art)
On a Hill Far Away (The Old Rugged Cross)
There
is a Green Hill
The Day Thou Gavest, Lord Is Ended
The King of Love My Shepherd Is
(A version of Psalm 23)
The Lord's My Shepherd (Also Known As Crimond)
Thine Be the
Glory
